There are friends who'd talk behind our backs, & sometimes we're not sure if it's something positive or negative about us. But a true friend will build you up even if you're not around, & even if they know all your ugliest traits, they won't dare to badmouth you to others; as far as I know, only enemies can afford to do that.. because they don't care about you at all.
i have a friend i've known since the 6th grade and i feel like we're slowly moving apart. o3o i know alot of other friends/people go through this stage too but she said that i was stupid (like not kidding) in front of myself.
not gonna lie i was about to cry but sucked it up...
and later in music class i said "You know i was really hurt when you said that" and she said "well friends just do that."
and then she said "you are stupid. i've seen your grades"....she never has
Word of advice, REAL friends sweetie, they DON'T do that.
They are there for you, and if they think you aren't that smart then it's them who are really stupid.
And if she's never seen your grades then you should have said "You know what? You've never seen my grades, so how the hell can you even say I'm stupid? And if that's your opinion then mines is that your being terrible Friend."